
If You Love Me, Keep My Commands
In John 14, Jesus tells his disciples: “If you love me, keep my commands.”

In John 14, Jesus tells his disciples: “If you love me, keep my commands.”

Biblical brotherhood isn’t primarily built around shared hobbies, watching the game together, or grabbing breakfast once a month. Those have value, but they aren’t what Scripture has in mind when it calls us to love one another. Jesus never called us to admire one another from a distance; he instructed us to “carry each other’s burdens” (Galatians 6:2). That’s up-close and hands-on—we can’t be that kind of brother in Christ from the sidelines.
At least, that’s the story we tell ourselves.

Every healthy relationship is built on connection and communication: The strongest friendships, marriages, and family bonds grow through honest conversation, shared experiences, and a commitment to spending time together. Real and lasting connection requires openness, trust, and a willingness to be present. The same is true of our relationship with God.
At least, that’s the story we tell ourselves.

Conflict is unavoidable. Whether at home, at work, in friendships, or even within the church, we all face moments of disagreement and tension. Unfortunately, when it comes to conflict, our culture normalizes unhealthy responses, sometimes teaching that the loudest, angriest voice wins, and other times, justifying quiet resentment and passive-aggressive behavior. But Jesus shows us another way. A better way. Conflict is not about overpowering others or passively withdrawing, but about tapping into God’s truth, peace, and strength whenever it arises.

Making friends as an adult is a completely different ballgame than it was as a kid. But while it takes work, building your “village” is worth it.

All the Bible is about building relationships. Here’s a few pieces of advice from the Bible about how we can honor our maker and one another in how we treat each other.

Christmas is a wonderful opportunity to catch up with loved ones, whether you’re recounting old memories or making new ones. Each member of our faith family has a unique story to tell. Here are three questions to help you and your loved ones connect over God’s faithfulness throughout this year.

Chris & Carla Hines share their 36-year journey from high school sweethearts to thriving marriage by prioritizing God and each other.

Learn from military couples Wang & Evelyn Saecheo and Jake & Emily Pettit as they discuss the challenges and bonds of military marriage.
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